I’m in school and after my fourth period one day (which is my last class for that day) after I got out to my car a guy (from that class) who was walking me out to my car asked me to coffee. I really wanted some so we hoped in my car and went to starbucks…spent about 45 minutes just kinda talking about stuff and it wasn’t until I dropped him off at his car and drove away that I started to wonder if he liked me…
If I liked a guy i’d ask him to coffee sometime, but um… I don’t like him soo…
what do i do?
11 responses so far ↓
1 Mike T // Nov 9, 2008
common cut him a break, us guys try hard
2 Mr.Wise Guy // Nov 9, 2008
you dont like him? if you dont then just pretend that it was a friendly thing, nothing more or less
3 xchris // Nov 9, 2008
Player…
4 Vinny // Nov 9, 2008
Just tell him that maybe sometime later when you get to know him you can start something, even though you don’t want to, it’s easy to say no now cause at least you had the decision.
5 missfresita_rbd // Nov 9, 2008
I think thats a big sign(:
You should just go for it!
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6 Addy L // Nov 9, 2008
let him known that,.. he probually likes you atleast a little bit and when you hang out with him try to make it noticeable that you don’t like him like that
7 csan // Nov 9, 2008
it probably does mean he likes you. if you dont like him spare his feelings and simply tell him the truth.
8 Acilikola // Nov 9, 2008
he did not like you at all as when he got to his car he ran away as fast as he can
9 Tedi // Nov 9, 2008
Coffee is a good way to find out if you have anything in common. Because you don’t want to do again with him then it was good that you had coffee with him. Most people pick up the clues when the other isn’t interested in them so you just do nothing.
10 Raven Z // Nov 9, 2008
Give him a chance. He prob likes you in order to ask you out for coffee
11 Nina // Nov 9, 2008
He might be interested in you. Ask him for coffee and see where it goes. If he accepts, pay attention to his body language and what he is saying. Is he only talking about himself or about class? Does he show interest in you? Does he ask you about yourself?
If the former is the case, then just accept it and be happy to have another friend to talk to about that class. Maybe another study buddy.
If it’s the latter, great! Enjoy!