I’ve spoken to her but she lives in a really rough area and i can’t easily go to see her. What can i do i care about her soo much and i just don’t want her 2 get hurt but i’m always the sensible one. She says it’s ok coz she isn’t doing it full time and i know it’s wrong and i catagorically CANNOT tell anyone what she’s doing i promised-i just want her to stop. please help?
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1 James S // Oct 31, 2008
drinks vod once a month lmao…. thats hardcore..
2 ChessyIsDaBest // Oct 31, 2008
tell her its illegal
3 An Author // Oct 31, 2008
Tell her to do it for you and the people she loves and tell her it’s really bad- tell her why- and also tell her that u wanna help anyway u can and that ur always there for her.
4 Celeste C // Oct 31, 2008
The teenage years are a time of experimentation. If your friend seems ok in every other way to you besides the drinking and smoking, just ignore the behavior. Do not give her extra attention for something you do not like. Find some people to hang out with who aren’t into smoking and drinking, and focus your attention on them, not her.
If, on the other hand, you notice her starting to drink, smoke and do drugs A LOT, then it’s your responsibility to tell a trusted adult about it. It doesn’t matter that you promised her you wouldn’t. If you think your friend is in trouble, tell her that you are going to tell your parents what she is up to, and then follow through. Be ready for her to be pretty angry about it, but know that if she’s truly harming herself, you’re doing the right thing.